As a Christian counselor, I have the privilege-and the burden-of sitting with hundreds of men, women, and couples every month. Over time, a theme has become heartbreakingly clear: men are struggling. They feel lost in today's culture, unsure of who they are or how to lead. Many carry deep shame. Others have simply given up, retreating into passivity or distraction. The culture mocks their masculinity, the church often doesn't know how to engage them, and the result is devastating: broken marriages, fatherless homes, isolated men, and discouraged women. And it's not just the men who are suffering.
I've listened to countless women weep-not because they want to take the lead in their homes, but because they no longer trust the man in their life to do it with integrity, wisdom, or safety. They're not asking for dominance. They're longing for a man they can trust. A man they can follow without fear. A man who walks humbly with God and takes up the weight of leadership not for his own power, but for the good of those entrusted to his care.
That's why I wrote The Forge.
This is more than a devotional-it's a journey back to the anvil of God. It's for the man who knows something's missing. It's for the man who wants to lead but doesn't know how. It's for the man who's tired of pretending, tired of failing, tired of wondering if this is all there is. It's for the man who's ready to be reshaped.
The Forge is designed to rebuild biblical masculinity from the inside out. Week by week, it will take you through themes of character, calling, courage, conviction, stewardship, and brotherhood. You won't just read-you'll reflect, wrestle, and grow. It's not about becoming the man the world expects. It's about becoming the man God had in mind when He formed you. If you stick with this journey, I believe God will meet you in it-not to scold you, but to shape you. Not to crush you, but to craft you. Because He's not done with you. Not even close.
So welcome to The Forge. It's time to rise. -Dr. Chuck Carrington
