How Did We Get Here?

How Did We Get Here? Love rarely begins with silence, but many couples find themselves living in it. What starts with laughter, intimacy, and shared dreams can slowly fade into distance, disconnection, and unanswered questions. How Did We Get Here? is a heartfelt and practical guide for couples who want to understand where things shifted, why they feel alone in marriage, and how to begin healing together or apart. Dr. Peter Asuata writes with raw honesty, pastoral wisdom, and cultural insight. Drawing from real stories of couples across Africa and the diaspora, he uncovers the subtle cracks that weaken relationships. This book is not about blame, it's about clarity, courage, and hope. Whether you're noticing the first signs of distance, struggling with years of silence, or standing at a painful crossroads, this book will help you:

Recognize the hidden patterns that erode connection. Break free from cultural myths that keep couples silent. Rediscover intimacy, communication, and mutual care. Decide with wisdom whether to rebuild or release.

How Did We Get Here? is both a mirror and a lifeline. It's a call to love intentionally, engage honestly, and embrace the possibility of healing because marriage should be more than endurance; it should be connection, growth, and grace. Perfect for couples, counselors, faith leaders, and anyone who believes love is worth fighting for. Get your copy now and recognize how you got here.