So the story goes on for one side of the family. In all these stories, it's hard to tell which are true and which are not! Let's view the stories as different perspectives. Then we won't care to discount any because even in falsehood, we do find some truth. Someone else's truth may not apply to you or to the one telling the account. Nevertheless, all those stories may definitely apply to others. Now wear that for a while. Decide which of this and that will register; as for the other one, let it enter one ear and travel through and out the other ear. As my daddy would say while we were growing up, "Now some of this and that you would necessarily let in one ear and out the other."