On the surface, this book speaks directly to both women and men. He Is Or Is Not My Husband crosses ethnicities while reaching out touching various aspects of relationships. It challenges the status quo of individuals in/out of relationships (Christian and Non-Christian). The reader faces acceptance or denial when reading the contents and several messages of this book. When a person is in denial, it alleviates the need for them to take responsibility for, which in turn supports a lack of action. He Is Or Is Not My Husband can contribute to stopping individuals from making a decision that can transition into being the biggest mistake in life. However, for others it will cause them to re-examine if they should continue in or leave that relationship. This book prompts the reader(s) to truthfully examine themselves to make the right choices. These are the choices that are often difficult to make when it comes to relationship decisions. Life choices are vitally important and are decisions that create ripples that span years. These ripples are often felt for a lifetime.