In today’s world of complex business and personal relationships, there are individuals who find themselves in situations where everything seems to be working against them. In the course of his career, the author has provided the help, strength and capacity to work within a system when the system is not working for the victim. Examples of problems that plague the victims of personal abuse are threats, extortion, stalking and harassment. The author has worked directly with the authorities, with victim’s attorneys, psychologists and, in some cases has dealt directly with the source of the problem, the stalker. The author has taken the approach of counseling in writing this book, as though the victim is sitting in his office discussing their problem. He has presented this work in an attempt to benefit those who have yet to understand either the depth or the many possible remedies for the problems that they may be facing. And finally, the author uses personal experiences in this field to highlight and explain the emotional impact and the seriousness of this terrible affliction in our society. The reader is sure to find themselves in one of the many scenarios presented.