New beginnings are difficult for everyone. This beginning that you are about to undertake will lead to a new and changed life; a life never before even imagined. This program, like all worthwhile change, will be difficult and sometimes even seem impossible. You will want, at times to quit and retreat into your old self: your old habits, behaviors, relationships and problems. We urge you to stay the course. You can do it if you want to bad enough. 2. We will not try to make this process sound effortless and pleasant like many of the self-help programs of today do. This in fact may be the most difficult process and program that you will ever try