Men in My Situation

Per Petterson, Ingvild Burkey

Men in My Situation
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Men in My Situation

Per Petterson, Ingvild Burkey

A major new novel from the author of the international bestseller Out Stealing Horses. Men in My Situation is a tender, scintillating portrait of grief, fatherhood and a life nearly going to pieces.

In 1992 Arvid Jansen is thirty-eight and divorced. Turid has left with their three girls, slipping into her young, exuberant crowd of friends - the colourful - and a new house with no trace of their previous life together. More than a year has passed since the tragic accident that took his parents and two of his brothers. Existence has become a question of holding on to a few firm things. Loud, smoky bars, whisky, records, company for the night and taxis home. Or driving his Mazda into the stunning, solitary landscape outside of Oslo, sleeping in the car when his bed is an impossible place to be, craving a connection that is always just beyond reach.

At some point, the girls decide against weekend visits with their dad. Arvid suspects that his eldest daughter, Vigdis, sees what kind of a man he really is. Adrift and inept, paralysed by grief. And maybe she’s right to keep her distance from his lonely life. Is there any redemption for a man in his situation? When Arvid has lost or been left by all those dear to him and feels his life unravelling, perhaps there is still a way forward.


Men in My Situation paints a portrait of the effects of grief upon a fragile psyche, and as you are already guessing, the results ain’t pretty. Our first-person narrator, Arvid, lives in Oslo and his life has come undone with two shattering incidents: a ferry accident in which members of his family have died, and the subsequent implosion of his marriage. He describes his attempts to keep in touch with his three young daughters, but as they spend less and less time with him, we realise that the gap between the life he is describing and its actuality is getting wider and wider.

We spend a lot of time on the streets of Oslo and on the roads leading in and out of the city – Arvid has a mania for describing landmarks, directions, the relationships between suburbs and towns. He is a writer, a quite well-known one (the similarities of his life circumstances to Petterson’s have been noted), and this becomes a repeated gag in the book, whereby various people he meets have read his books but are circumspect in giving their opinions of them.

As well as being physically located, the character culturally situates himself with references to plays and novels and films and music: Strindberg and Berger and Bergman and the Beatles. But though Arvid insists on his location by means of architecture and art, he is a nowhere man. His grief has plunged him into a solipsistic hellhole. Most of this book is less of a narrative and more the description of the concentric ripples on the surface of a life when a person falls through to the underneath. The last part of the book, however, (and thankfully so if the book is indeed based on Petterson’s life) allows some years to elapse and Arvid the chance to connect again with a world outside himself.

Bernard Calleo is a bookseller at Readings Carlton.

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