Things That Helped: Essays
Jessica Friedmann

Things That Helped: Essays
Jessica Friedmann
Review
by Kara Nicholson
Last year I was challenged by Maggie Nelson’s The Argonauts, a book its publisher categorised as ‘autotheory’, a kind of hybrid of autobiography and critical theory. Chris Kraus’s I Love Dick (which I read when it was republished last year) could also fit this category, though Kraus herself considers her work to be fiction despite the fact that everything that happened in the book ‘happened first in life’. I think I would also place Jessica Friedmann’s collection within this ‘genre-bending’ category.
In this collection of candid essays, Friedmann weaves thinking from the likes of Lacan, Kristeva and Cixous into her own lived experience of postnatal depression, to more broadly consider the onerous challenges of being female, a writer and a mother. While Things That Helped does not push at the boundaries to the same degree as the writings of Nelson and Kraus, it is more accessible in its structure. Friedmann’s deeply personal story takes the reader on captivating digressions, from the intergenerational trauma of Holocaust survivors, to the latest cross-cultural research on postnatal depression. She deftly weaves in popular culture references from Antony and the Johnsons lyrics to her anxiety-induced obsession with the American teen movie Centre Stage. She is careful not to try and speak for all women and I strongly admire her determination to make it her ‘life’s work to bear witness’ to the suffering of other women who have been similarly rocked when their bodies and minds seem to turn against them, or whose stories do not conform to the typical narratives of motherhood.
Autotheoretical literature is an exciting genre and I hope to see more works like Friedmann’s collection reach a mainstream audience in the future.
Kara Nicholson works as a bookseller at Readings Carlton.
This item is in-stock and will ship in 2-3 business days
Sign in or become a Readings Member to add this title to a wishlist.

Sad Mum Lady
$29.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

A Life’s Work
$22.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Motherhood
$22.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Things That Helped: Essays
$29.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Kid Gloves: Nine Months of Careful Chaos
$32.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Things Nobody Knows But Me
$29.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

The Erratics
$24.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Unconditional Love
$32.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

The Girls
$32.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

On Drugs
$29.95Buy now
Finding stock availability...

When You’re Not OK: A Toolkit for Tough Times
$19.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Unlike the Heart: A Memoir of Brain and Mind
$29.95Buy now
Finding stock availability...

The Collected Schizophrenias: Essays
$34.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Breaking Badly
$32.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
$35.00Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things
$19.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Autumn
$22.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

The Animators
$32.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

The Handmaid’s Tale: the beautiful gift edition of the number one Sunday Times bestseller
$22.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Things That Helped: Essays
$29.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Insomniac City: New York, Oliver, and Me
$29.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Adult Fantasy
$29.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

Pulse Points: Stories
$29.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...

La Belle Sauvage (The Book of Dust, Volume 1)
$11.99Buy now
Finding stock availability...