Marriage Rules is a treasure chest of lively, practical advice to help you navigate your relationships issues with clarity, courage, and joyous conviction.

In this life-changing and spirit lifting book, you’ll find answers and hope. Following a unique format perfect for today’s world, the renowned author of The Dance of Anger gives us more than one hundred rules that cover all the hot spots in long-term relationships, You’ll learn new solutions to age-old problems (‘He won’t talk’ or ‘She doesn’t want sex’) as well as modern ones (your partner’s relationship to technology). Read Marriage Rules just for yourself. While it takes two people to couple up, it takes only one person to make things a whole lot better.

‘This is the marriage book we’ve been waiting for! It’s packed with clearheaded counsel and small, doable steps that can turn a relationship around. I saw myself on almost every page-which led to a lot of head-nodding, laughing … and wincing.’ Brene Brown, Ph.D., LMSW, author of the New York Times bestseller Daring Greatly

‘If you’re asking the question 'But what do I do?,’ this book is for you, Marriage Rules is wise, gripping, funny, sanity-saving, and, above all, useful. It’s brimming with Lerner’s warmth, sharp wit, remarkable intelligence, and practical advice.‘ Edward M. Hallowell, M.D., co-author of Driven to Distraction

'This book is an astonishing blend of down-home wisdom and clinical experience. I can’t think of a better comprehensive guide to making marriage work for today’s couples. Read it for your own relationship and give it to every newlywed you know.’ William J. Doherty, Ph.D., author of Take Back Your Marriage

‘Open this book anywhere and you’ll find a rule that will rescue you from the swamps and quicksands of marriage and couplehood.’ Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D., author of After the Affair