Under Pressure: How the epidemic of hyper-parenting is endangering childhood

Carl Honore

Under Pressure: How the epidemic of hyper-parenting is endangering childhood
Format
Paperback
Publisher
Allen & Unwin
Country
Australia
Published
1 May 2008
Pages
304
ISBN
9781741750157

Under Pressure: How the epidemic of hyper-parenting is endangering childhood

Carl Honore

The parent screaming from the touchline at an eight-year-old to make an overlapping run; the pregnant mother playing Mozart to her unborn baby; the rigid schedule for babies, which develops into an agenda of activities for a young child - all these are familiar instances of hyper-parenting.

With the pressure growing all the time for children to get into the best schools and universities, or to develop their nascent talents and become the next Tiger Woods or Williams sister, it has never been more difficult to be a child. In Carl Honore’s brilliant follow-up to In Praise of Slow he makes an impassioned call for parents and teachers to allow children to grow up at a slower rate. Too often children today are burnt out by the time they reach their teens, thanks to a combination of tests and organised activities that fill their every waking moment. Where is the time to join their friends and play, or simply to sit and daydream? Surely there is something wrong with a parent who sends their child to see a psychotherapist after she comes third in a spelling bee in a New York school? Especially when that child is only six.

By sifting through the latest scientific research and interviewing experts and families around the world, Carl Honore shows why parenting does not have to be a cross between a competitive sport and product development and why childhood does not have to be a rat race. Under Pressure will inspire readers to ease off, trust their instincts and find the natural balance between doing too much and too little for children. If we all managed that, perhaps our children would be allowed to have a childhood worthy of the name.

Under Pressure shows how ‘slow parenting’ will benefit both the child and the parents, and ensure that we are developing a new generation of children healthy in body and mind.

Review

The author of In Praise of Slow – and scribe of the Slow movement – tackles just one of the areas in which our wired, achievement-oriented society is running on overdrive in Under Pressure. Honore visits schools, parents, child care centres and toy fairs around the world to observe different methods and views of child-rearing, and their effects on children’s development and behaviour. He also gives a potted run-down of the history of childhood, giving his exploration of modern parenting a helpful context. What he finds is that pushing kids to achieve early in life gives them no advantage whatsoever – their peers will generally catch up. He also finds (surprise, surprise!) that schools that focus on helping their students to pass exams turn out kids who are really good at … passing exams…but not so adept at problem-solving, creative thinking and motivating themselves. He emphasises the importance of play, screen-free time, striking a balance between interacting with children and giving them their freedom (and the opportunity to be bored), and cultivating pleasure in learning for discovery’s sake. Under Pressure, which is written in conversational, reportage-style prose, is a riveting read for parents – and delivers plenty of food for thought. I found myself muttering ‘yes!’ a lot as I read. Even on trains.

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