Bonobo Handshake: A Memoir Of Love And Adventure In The Congo

Vanessa Woods, Australian scientist and author, thought she had found her true love: chimpanzees. But in a reckless moment, she accepts a marriage proposal from a man she barely knows – and agrees to join him on a research trip to the Democratic Republic of Congo. All she’s sure of is that they will be studying bonobos, an extremely endangered species of ape with whom humans share 98.7% of our DNA.

As she adjusts to newlywed life in a war-torn country, Vanessa finds herself enchanted by these remarkable animals. They live in a peaceful society in which females are in charge, war is nonexistent, and sex is as common and friendly as a handshake. She came to study their habits and habitat, but soon learns much more: they teach her about love and belonging, about building a home, and about what makes us human.

Fascinating, courageous and irresistibly funny, Bonobo Handshake is an astonishing story of love, revelation and transformation in a fragile corner of Africa.

‘This is a startling book. Page after page astonished me. A beautifully written journey ... told with striking honesty, humour, and intelligence.’ – Alan Alda

‘Funny, adventurous, and heartbreaking. This must-read book illuminates extraordinary courage in both people and animals.’ – Sara Gruen, author of the New York Times bestseller Water for Elephants

‘This book is both shocking and hilarious.’ – Temple Grandin, author of Animals in Translation and Animals Make Us Human